Before I got into a university, I sat for an exam that would enable me get in. And I wrote that exam twice..not because I failed the first time, but I didn't get the course I wanted so I had to rewrite it. I stilldid not get the course I wanted but I was so bored of staying home so I took what I got. It wasn't my favourite University but what the hell huh...
But before that I was in a relationship with "Mikel". A yoruba Demon as my Nigerian girls would address them. Yoruba guys love sincerely and with everything they've got. For real. We met in church...well...not inside..I escorted my cousin home cause it was really late..about 11pm, then I started walking back to church when "Mikel and Christian" Yes...Christian from my primary school..the one I disliked cause he was smart and begged a lot. That one.
I was walking alone in that street, they were coming real close to me but I wasn't that scared cause I recognised his face...still I was kinda praying in my head. Then "Mikel" spoke to me with the softest tone and I was instantly calm. Took my number and left...apparently it wasn't the first time he saw me but he couldn't talk to me. This time Christian made him. We dated for about a year..he adored me and I could tell. He apologizes even when I'm at fault. He never yelled at me..he understood I was a virgin and wasn't ready to do anything yet with him. He never even pressured me. I've never even seen him angry before...well..there was one time...I went to see him and I was stopped by another guy and we were talking while I was waiting for Mikel...the guy also knows Mikel.
So Mikel asked me to come to a street and I refused cause it was dark and I had to walk alone..I told him to come out instead, he refused and I was talking to his 'friend'. He walked to where I told him I was and saw us. I have never seen him that mad. He said I didn't want to come there cause I was busy with my boyfriend..and I really don't like being accused falsely so I decide to leave which he didn't hesitate to make possible. He still apologised though.
I was ready to give myself to him but he never had the right setting. He was staying with his aunt so he couldn't sleep out unless he lied. I could sleep out cause I was in school but still I had to lie to my parents. I didn't mind. But he never got it right...I mean it was my fucking first time and he wanted us to do it in a friend's place. Was he even thinking?! What if i bleed a lot? Or have no strength to go home? 😱
I came back from school one day and went to see him...I wasn't expecting where he took me to. I was like..okay..privacy...cool. But then in the middle of making out half naked..he brought out a condom. Then his friend knocked to take something cause he was sitting right outside! Okay..in my head, I was so mad...he didn't tell me he had this in mind, and his friends were right outside, and! A condom?! 😡 I did not want to use that shit for my first time. I demanded I leave and he agreed knowing I wasn't happy with him. Mikel and I had a really boring routine meetup where we would only meet at night and makeout a lot.
The exam I sat for to get into the university was called 'WAEC' . I wrote that exam with my cousin "Charity" and her friend from her school "Debby". So I didn't exactly make make any friends cause I was so shy and always in my own bubble but people still noticed me. Yep, they did.
There was one guy (Daniel) in particular that really saw me but I saw him only once . He was the cutest guy in that exam hall. The first time I saw him, I thought he was new but he talked to others there so much that I knew he wasn't new. But I didn't pay much attention to him as he had girls flocking around him.
So, one day, one of his friend came over to talk to me, I didn't like him but I wasn't rude. I gave him my number and he said he'd call. I didn't care cause I was going to block him anyways. Few days after the exam ended, he texted me on WhatsApp. I viewed the profile picture and saw Daniel instead of the guy that took my number...let's call him 'Simon' as I can't remember his name😁. I asked him why he had my number and he said his friend use his phone to collect my number.
'Simon' did not have an android phone 📱, so he used Daniel's phone to get my number and saved it with another name so Daniel wouldn't talk to me. But Daniel knows his contacts and it was easy to know which one was me, plus I used my picture as my profile picture. It was really funny. He also said he wanted to talk to me but his friend went in first so he just stepped back and offered him the phone to take my number. Even when Simon transferred my number to his phone and deleted it from Daniel's phone, he didn't know Daniel and I had already had a conversation so my number was still in his WhatsApp. We talked everyday! He's really funny, interesting, kinda smart and really cute. We didn't see each other though cause the exam was done and I was in a relationship. But not with Mikel..
I had a rebound guy🤭
Jewel was like a rebound guy to forget Mikel and trust it worked. But it didn't last cause he put a lot of pressure on me to give myself to him..he couldn't wait and I didn't want to do something I'd regret.
I left Mikel for Jewel...not like I planned it but Jewel just came at the right time. I just ended things with Mikel and was single and hurting. I have no idea how Jewel got my phone number and texted me on WhatsApp. He was also very interesting and cute. We agreed to meet but I didn't go alone. I went with Charity...not like I was scared but still...I wanted to be safe.
He was really good looking and nice. We've been talking on WhatsApp for a while so it was easy to communicate and makeout too. Oh...he's a really good kisser too. Damn! 🥵 But we dated for only three months cause I couldn't have sex with him. Not like i couldn't..i just wasn't ready yet. He kept asking and asking...and would get mad when I say I'm not ready, I would get mad cause he's mad..it was too exhausting. So I ended it. 🙅
Ending it with Jewel made me realise I wasn't ready for sex at all. And I won't be in a relationship either to avoid it. Well..that plan tanked cause Daniel came along. I have no idea how but..he...he is so dreamyyy...has the softest and calmest voice ever..his height...oh..his face...Dear God his face...wow!!😍🥰😍🥰He's basically the sweetest guy ever.
But, I got into the University before Daniel and we were just friends...sortof...we kissed a lot before even dating. I told him why I couldn't date him and he didn't care...I didn't believe him so I told him I needed time and he gave me that but he was too irresistible..we would makeout a lot our lips would be pink for days. He had a natural pink lips though but it looked like he out on lipstick after our long make out. And I had a combination of black and pink. Up black, bottom lip pink👄.
He got into a University in another state, but before that I accepted to be his girlfriend and he told me not to worry about the distance which honestly scared me a lot but I trusted him. I was eighteen and he was seventeen, I didn't mind...I fell for him and he made it super easy to fall..the attention, the patience, kindness, care..he literally treated me like my name "Princess".
He would ask me to sleep over and he wouldn't touch me if I get scared. Yes..we would kiss..but that was it. It tormented him a lot but he respects me. He was really invested in me. He would ask if I wanted to give myself to him and how I wanted to do it. I didn't know he was really serious about the 'how' part.
He was the perfect boyfriend and I couldn't be happier😄.
My first sleepover with him...with anyone actually, we had a fight over the stupidest thing that night and the next morning, he sent me a message on WhatsApp...the exact same time I also sent a message "I'm sorry babe". Weird. I realised I was mad cause my period was coming and it did..that same day I was supposed to sleep over and we would've prolly done it. I told him and he still wanted me to come over...I was shocked cause most guys hate staying close to a girl on her period. I told him we wouldn't do anything and he didn't care..he just wanted to be with me. It was the best painful night ever.
I fell for him even harder😫😫