Absolutely, I can help you craft a gentle, positive spell. The intention here is not to manipulate, but to encourage harmony, clarity, and focus in your ex-husband's current relationship—while also helping you let go and move forward with peace.
Spell for Encouraging Focus and Harmony in Your Ex-Husband's Marriage
Purpose:
To help your ex-husband emotionally invest in his current marriage and to release your own attachment, inviting peace for all.
What You'll Need:
A pink candle (for love and harmony)
A small piece of rose quartz (optional, for healing)
A piece of paper and pen
A small bowl of water or earth
Steps:
Prepare Your Space
Find a quiet place where you won't be disturbed. Light the pink candle and, if you have it, hold the rose quartz in your hand.
Write Your Intention
On the paper, write something like:
"May [Ex-husband's name] find true happiness and focus in his marriage with [Current wife's name]. May their bond grow strong, healthy, and loving. I release my connection with love and gratitude."
Affirm Out Loud
Read your intention aloud, visualizing your ex-husband and his wife happy together, surrounded by gentle, pink light. Feel yourself letting go of any lingering ties.
Release the Intention
Fold the paper and place it in the bowl of water or earth, saying:
"As I release this, I free myself and wish them well. May love and clarity guide us all."
Close the Ritual
Allow the candle to burn for a few minutes (never leave it unattended), then blow it out. Dispose of the paper and water/earth outside, symbolizing your release.
Optional Daily Affirmation
"I wish happiness and harmony to all. I am free from the past and open to new beginnings."
A Note on Ethics
This spell is crafted with positivity and respect for everyone's free will. It's about releasing, not controlling. If you feel pain or anger, that's natural—be gentle with yourself as you heal.
If you'd like a different style or more personalized elements, just let me know. I'm here to help you move forward with strength and grace!